It is a moment when I was fiddling with my thoughts, on my
fingers was counting the sad and happy days of life not only mine but the
people around me who I know closely. Then, won’t say suddenly’, but with a deep, long and expanded way I tried
to bunch up the episodes of combat of my feelings. A strong and massive feeling
which actually has a delicate coverlet.That is ” Love” .
As much I
understood this feeling although it’s something ruled by our heart but
somewhere it is not headed by heart. We fall in love by heart but sooner we bogged
down with numerous setbacking feelings. Argument, anger, jealous, distrust, disrespect,
disagreement, over expectation, confusion, discontent and pressure. All these
feelings are murderer of our real feeling.
I won’t say
these fears are unjust. They are inevitable. But what inference i brought out could
be suggestive to torn out these negative
imprint.
If once in a love
you have got what you never expected then you shouldn’t stick to those painful
memories. You should realize why do we
fall in love and what we should get after getting in this astounding feeling?
Being in love is a
state of life when your take towards life become 200% positive, where you have an assurance that no
matter what situations can be, you will get pass through every test of life,
when you wake up with a smile on your face and your day end up with that smile
too. When you get tiny surprises whole day, when entire day u get more and more
assure that he/she is the one who can be part of my life. When you become more
competent and give your best short in everything what you do. You can’t be
winner all the time but definitely you won’t be a quitter. You have someone to
tell about your, from small to big, successes and failures. When your single
tear can tear her/his heart and your smile can widen his/her happiness. That is
the state when you realize that he/she can make you stay.
This
realization doesn’t come from the books you read or from the stories of couples
or movies you watch. This realization comes when someone makes you realize to
understand Love.
We hear lot
of stories, examples and advices about love but it is the exam you will get
pass when you actually take this exam.
