Wednesday, 31 December 2014

What if I won’t wake up next morning?

You would be wondering that on this day when everybody singing “welcome songs” for reception of New Year… Toasting for new resolutions... Thinking about “what can be” in this New Year instead of “what could have been …I am taking up this Title... Relax People. I have never been pessimistic so today it’s not going to be different.
        Well we already have spent 12 months, 52 weeks, 365 days, 8760 hours in struggling for better life, to live up our dreams, some dreams we lived up and many are still in the queue to chase on. Never mind...Keep trying.
              Every day when I go to bed my mind becomes the most rushed road. Thousands of vehicles run across the side, honking the horns of Future and every time it gets jammed because of Heavy traffic of thoughts. I hardly get the sound sleep everyday trust me.
Well I just want to write things down for everybody who is facing this or may be lesser of this or more than this, in short for everybody.  At one point of time in life we all feel that nothing goes as we want and most of the times it’s not false to worry about.
Hopelessness, Boredom, Disparity, Dissatisfaction and other relative feelings, we are Humans and it’s obvious to feel that pain. Just go through this:
1)  Past Has Gone: Most of us have the grey memories of past which do not let us grow towards present. Take a deep breathe and understand that the breath u have just taken is possible to get back? The scene in the theater which has been just passed can possible to play again. Of course on laptop, every time, we can rewind and pause but that’s exactly same like holding your past in your palm. If you would delete the memories of past (Precisely Bad which haunts you) you wouldn’t be able to replay them. Just shift +delete guys and hold your present like an infant in your hands.


2) Fear of losing your Happiness: Happiness is not a predefined figure. Everybody has their own definition of happiness and who would ever dream of losing their happiness? No one.
No matter on which gradation you have put in, yours which happiness but it’s undoubtedly happiness which draw smile on your face. We fear about losing people we love, losing job, position, wealth and health and we spend hours to think about this fear instead of living those moments. If something is meant to go it will but, as far as we concern, capable is only to live it not to leave it. So loosen up yourself. Do silly things, hug, kiss, jump, dance, surprise others and smile for no reason.

3) Dreams : I don’t know how many of you has this as a drawback in your life but I feel  that’s also one of those scary tool which makes you insomniac. Dreams “They born in our heart, grow up in our eyes and we live them repeatedly in our brains everyday” just as a rehearsal. Of course it’s really painful to give up on your dreams. The tears we shed on our broken dreams are the bitterest ones. But that’s also one of the tastes of life. It’s up to us of what kind of energy we want to encircle ourselves, positive one or negative. If your dream is achievable till your last breath then never ever give up. Don’t mourn for it to get delay, live it in your consciousness. Dream it and sing it to the last vein of heart. Slack up your negativity and c’mon people live it today.

4) “Being Positive” is not a Term: I feel that more you grow goodness more you get copacetic life. Being positive is not a term only; it’s a way to live. And let me tell you one thing it’s not created and invented by those who had all kind of resources and success in their life. It’s one of the best excuses of being negative that “no one else understands my story”. You are right nobody knows your story but what story you want to tell the world?  Think over it. World wants to listen an inspiring story of yours, failure has no consolation in this world. It’s bitter but true. So be a compassionate orator of your life’s story.


So live up, excuse your sadness and unbend yourself for better tomorrow. Don’t take any resolution which in the year end you would repent on not to fulfilling them. Hitting the gym, leaving bad habits, print millions of millions etc.  Just take one resolution that “What if I won’t wake up next morning” then how would I have been lived my day and decorated this day.
Unwrap your Present and do let me know what it has in your box.

Happy New Year….. Welcome 2015
Love and Blessing
                                                                                                                                
                                                                                                                   Sudha Ram Joshi


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